Feeling a deep connection to another
Helen says she feels a deep connection to someone she first met about 12 years ago. She says, “We are like ships passing at night and see each other by chance a couple of times each year. He is very much on my mind and I believe we could be true friends but things have never got off the ground. I think about him a lot but realise feelings are only on my part. Do we have a past life connection and if so were we in a relationship and did we have a child? There have been times when it has felt like he has seen me more clearly than those closer to me. Do we have unfinished business in this life? And does he recognise the connection or is it all in my mind? I find it very hard to accept I may never be close to him, and I know we are not meant to be together romantically. It however feels a huge waste of what I think could be a deep friendship. Thank you for listening.”
Dearest one, you have a very bright light. I thought I would convey this to you. Your energy is very brilliant and often this does frighten others. In truth, there is a certain part of you that he is afraid of, so be aware of this. It is not something you are doing or chose to do. It isn’t the truth but it is how he conveys it at this time. Be joyful, be light, be friendly and perhaps in time he will feel more at ease. But understand that he is afraid of you right now. There is a past life connection, but it is not time to know what it is. Carry on being brilliant.
Thank you so much.
With reference to your response, please can you explain which specific part of me is he afraid of?
You say ‘it isn’t the truth but it is how he conveys it at this time’…. What is not the truth? I am confused as you say it is not something I am doing or chose not to do.
* Does he feel any connection?
* Is my ‘over-brightness’ the reason I rarely see him? (as he implies it is circumstances and acts happy when we meet)
* Will he ever share his ‘true self’ and feelings with me?
* Is our chapter in this life complete, and should I let the hope of knowing him go?
I do not want to scare or cause him to feel uncomfortable. It is not often that our paths cross, it has just span over many years.
I trust and appreciate your guidance.
Helen