Most souls while dwelling on this physical body have their greatest problems with the fight between the heart and the head.  The heart will often know what the spirit needs to do and the head will say, “Oh no, this is what society expects from me.” And they create a lot of difficulty that needn’t be there. There is a lot of this in your world, a lot. Many beings are hooked up to an unreal energy that speaks to them as some truth. It is not truth. It is from hysteria and fear and want and neglect, all feeding into some sense of needing to be a certain way.  It saddens many of us, although we are not supposed to have emotions in spirit. But when we see beings judging themselves against some elusive illusion, it is sad.